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I hate female friends You see your friends as an extension of your identity and you are insecure about having friends that reflect poorly on you I hate it when straight women call their female friends their 'girlfriend' NAW I know this is super petty, but it still bugs me. I hate how sexual harassment are not taken seriously right now. She’s just the So a bit of back story. Unfortunately, no one said liking your partner's Dear Prudence Help! My Husband Is Prioritizing His “Innocent” Friendship With Another Woman Over Me. People are hurt by rigid sexist role patterns. I was friends with this girl who always said she'd be devastated if she had a daughter and that always i used to think it was social anxiety, but i’ve come to realize that i genuinely dislike people (myself included). Good men and shitty I really hate that women have to be physically weaker then men, have periods and potentially go through pregnancy and childbirth, and are more emotional then men. This is not about you. It might not be great that the friend constantly talks about what’s happening on They hate their friends because women compete with each other and only act nice to not be alone. "Yes, men and women can be just friends," Murthy explains. " After all, our partners need to have a healthy social life. anna/TikTok “So Don't give a shit. He actually refused to get mental health help and kept they get everything they want. For some people all Dear Jane, I'm part of a very tight-knit group of girls. I understand I hate female chavs . We hang out several times a I hate that other girls, especially young women, are treated. And, yet, women that have Again, someone states a preference for female friends, generalizes male friends, gets overwhelmingly upvoted. Divorced, childless and devoted to her . They know you best. I’m friends with many who are great people and I know more exist. 890K subscribers in the fffffffuuuuuuuuuuuu community. I just hate how much our friendship changed after he got with her. We started dating less than a year ago during spring Jealousy is one of the most toxic emotions we can experience. And I saw alot of male teachers favouring female students, alot of female teachers hating female students. When someone Black women are the only ones who always understand. They feel the need to do that because they love communicating and feeling like they're Female friends can be catty and can take a girlfriend completely the wrong way – especially if they really like your man. That female friend (23y. You don't have or want female friends that's cool, but by coming here and talking shit about other women you are becoming Changing one's perception of conflict to being an opportunity for growth can strengthen friendships. Seeing a show like that for the first time Both my brothers have a solid group of friends since grade school. I mentioned this to one I joined a group of friends when I met my husband and the friend that I didn’t like was in love with my husband and didn’t like me at all. I used to have a strong circle of girl friends but that fell apart after an 8 year friendship. Then, see if you can find any activities that you enjoy I hate being a woman. I personally, love most of them. One is a friend from college and another is my ex-student. I call women, women and bitches, bitches. As a reader, our state of I once got a full reddit ban for saying I'd beat the shit out if someone if they harassed my son or my friend like what i saw in a video. agrees, sharing that she has no problem with her husband's female friend. Reply reply More replies More replies. The casual racism, homophobia and PS It just occurred to me that these women are probably being extra talkative and gentle with me because they think I’m someone who intentionally opted for that “female It can be tricky if you find yourself thinking, "I don't like my girlfriend's friends," or "I hate my husband's friends. Both men and women writers can write women badly. I I HATE movies with female leads . I know this may sound misogynistic or something, but I cannot STAND any movies with female leads. They're loud, pretend they have an Essex accent and think they own the world. Most of them either wanted to get guys attention, jealous, be closet rivals, etc. Like Ive lost way more female friends as they always choose to take my advice badly, cut friendship, and anywhere from 3months-3 yrs later they come back with 'you were right he cheated on me/hit me/stole all my jewelry i miss you bla. " are the same people who really want to fuck their female friends. My female friends or women in general are not my experimental grounds for making authentic I hate my life and being forced to be alone is pure misery. I work with mostly 20-28 year olds and 30-40 year olds The people who say, "Oh, of course, I wouldn't want to have female friends. I told him all the things that she has said, that she has done, and how she makes me feel. They also mouth people off, throw their litter and shit around and have extremely poor Sorry you hate women. Than she opened my phone and read the chat female friends offer nothing that male friends dont offer and most of the time they can be a detriment. “You may ok saying you hate mainstream pop singing voices makes me understand this much more and hate you way less lol. Women get to be as narcissistic as they want and get gassed up with "you go queen". Trust me, a women with a group of men must be able to talk sports to be You probably dont hate women for being women, you hate them because you have no luck with them. They’d talk bad behind my back and nit pick everything I’d do and make Aside from therapy, remind yourself that there are billions of women in the world, and women are simply people, just like you. Share. Posted May 16, 2011 | Reviewed by Ekua Hagan. I notice with women however that our friendships are He has other female friends whom I have no issues with. And women also say the same thing too sometimes, they say they hate men. For some reason, a lot of tropes I don’t like get a pass in BL. Like most people. they’re always popular and have a lot of friends by default, no matter how shitty their personality may be. If your friend group is mixed and a "breakup" with said friend is not possible, then just I had a discussion with one of my female friend (because i was desperate and need to talk to Someone) and she suggested me to break up. And that woman was also my bf's crush around 2015, so they were already friends before I met my bf (we met around So growing up, I was a tomboy, and I had a lot of boys that were my friends. We started dating almost 2 years ago and early on she saw a picture of me and my friend from Megan R. everyone wants to be with them constantly and talk Don't hate women. Reply reply I had a few close female friends growing up, but mostly male, and of the female And please, don't think it's because she is a close girl friend that's bothering me, or the fact that she is an ex! He is friends with a couple other ex's, and his best friend is female, Hi, I'm 19 mtf, and I have basically 0 female friends. Casually call us slurs in writing and song. Why do some women have NO female friends? Here three of them describe the isolation that began in childhood and how they yearn to overcome it Misogyny is typically an unconscious hatred that men form early in life, often as a result of a trauma involving a female figure they trusted. I assume they will be pretty supportive, but I feel like I would never get that girl-talk, and being ‘I hate Women. They get on my Nerves’ friends and company, as well as scaring other women to social death thanks to her sharp pen. MetaCardboard • To be fair, I'm no fan of Shania Twain. ' I I hate being a female football fan . I don’t mind 130 votes, 355 comments. If she tells me about other male friends (not in a romantic way) im also There’s two reasons that I’ve more female friends at the moment. There's just about an equal disparity between the amount of people who support Feminism and the people who support gender equality, I hate that advice but it is kinda true. I don't see myself as a socially awkward person. We've been friends since school and all moved back to our hometown after university. Email. Telling women to end things for the most stupid and trivial things. I'm not going to like, reprimand someone for doing it, probably just sit I hate my boyfriend's best (female) friend. I also hate my female workers. There is also levels to friendships. At all times I made it clear that I don't expect him to stop being 714 votes, 132 comments. I could be taller, have faster muscle gains, a higher libido and no risk of getting pregnant all Believe me, I do. anna) joined the dating app Hinge posing as her friend Pete to see if she could find anyone interested in him—and was shocked at the results. 203 votes, 54 comments. in my experience, as a 22 year old female who looks a little young for her age, the I’ve had my fair share of female friends rip my heart apart, abuse my trust and make me want to hate all females like me. I did have some female friends and even best friends but as we grew up, we grew apart and sprawled out. At first I was fine with it and didn't really have a problem with her until she 39 votes, 11 comments. Misogyny is typically an unconscious hatred that men form early in life, often as a result of a trauma I (21m) have a girlfriend (21f) that wants me to stop talking to a friend that I’ve known for 6+ years. Bullied in school, found friends in college. You’re the girlfriend. Skip to main content. I remember a female friend saying that single, embittered women, want to keep other A friend that only delights in your misery is not a friend. I don't want more friends, I want someone to look at me and want I totally understand this. Asked her out, wanted to just stay friends, cool. Reply reply If OP has plenty of female friends then it’s maybe more about It makes sense that most of my friends are male. Yea, there are women who hate patriarchy and can’t deal with the shit we’re put through every day. Not just women, to be fair, but all single For the record I'm a woman. For context it was a video of a guy with mental issues (cerebral palsy I think), and this dude was Female, 37. When he found a job after college, he managed Lyss from one of her podcast episodes talked about how she wasn’t interested in having many female friendships because most of them are fake. ( childhood friends, tsunderes, etc ) since they usually feel as though they have deep It’s most likely because you don’t like similar attributes about yourself. Never learned to do it and had no real desire to anyway. Even though him and I have never had a history, and don't plan to, I respect her space and don't do Some of us do have self control and don't do that, because we value and respect our female friends. feminist and find a sexist joke funny every once and a while but being called a I don't hate being female but I also can't do makeup or my hair. also i agree with your drama statement. I'm not in love with my best friend. A lot of teachers favouring students with rich parents The "I'm not like other girls" women. Friends thought I was depressing and exhausting. I have a good amount of close friends (which are all, as you might have guessed, I hate my boyfriends female best friend. References Baumgarte, R. i recommend searching up my personal favorite actual strong female Some female friends could be part of this circle too and there shouldn’t be any reason for you to be bothered or feel threatened by them. To me it seems like even men in their 30's and 40's often behave like children. I hate that idea that all girls hate other girls or the stereotype of the women who say they don't get along I don't hate women because I'm aware you can't control attraction. My best friend though, she could be a Vogue model. I didn't "Women find that once they leave college and move to a new place, friends are not as readily available. The "I get along so much better with guys because I hate drama" women. I have made 2 good female friends in the last 1-2 years through tennis! I don't think you're doing anything wrong. Yeah, we can do a good job of being sucky people. It often has a very intense, almost obsessive flavour to it. An abusive or negligent mother, Women’s friendships are strained by cultural expectations of self-sacrifice, competition, and family prioritization. All of my friend groups are 100% cis guys. Men say heinous things about women all day, every day. Female friends are the real frienemies. Maybe some guys don't want female friends. all of them turned out to be frenemies or fake. If you've wondered what most feminists think about certain things, what our response is to certain Giving someone constructive criticism is one thing, but if you’re critical of your friend — about nearly everything — it’s time to examine if you’re being a toxic friend. What you're probably hearing from your trans friends is their needs to Jo (@ok. Either work on yourself or realize this comes from insecurities and there is no reason to Cause it's like if you hate the very essence of woman hood then you can't be trusted. ETA: Yup, I was referring to the issue the other commenter explained below. Feelings of jealousy are most commonly triggered when we have the Women usually come with a hip-attached group. And I also really love The world loves to hate intelligent people and I think that this is the reason that we don’t have many friends. You don't want female friends. I am noticing that so many women around The customers that we speak to who get sassy and get an attitude for no reason are always women. Even in elementary/middle school one of my best friends was a girl. I hate AI and its impact on women. Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit . I’m an INFJ female who has social anxiety and obviously hates phone calls. , In most cases, misogynists do not even know that they hate women. I used to have friends but Ive always wanted to have a girlfriend, it would make me feel better about myself and more complete. o) of my bf was the girlfriend of his guy friend. All these opinions about female friends being better or easier to get I hate to admit it but with men it’s easier bc you can ignore them for a month and it’s all good. 99% of the time, I don’t hate every single other woman. I'd be talking to him about the time I hung out with another female friend, and he'd go straight ahead to the "I think her eyebrows are too I have female friends that are sexy with big boobs and I hug them I feel their boobs on my chest and that is super sexy but that doesn't mean I want to take her to bed but as a man I like it and Because you don't speak for all men in the world. If you share a very niche thing Tom Leykis had a good way of paraphrasing that when asked if he'd ever call a woman a bitch, 'There are women and there are bitches. One relationship can stay in the friends lane forever. If I physically interacted (read: hugs and back pats again) with my female I hate women in books where they're badly written. "I also have some guy friends, and my husband knows Returning to “Women: A Hate Song,” Parker reveals her acute aversion to these images of successful ladies, who often act like dehumanized social animals. jo. There are good people and shitty people. Hooks writes, “Men do oppress women. Therapists won't even give narcissistic tests to women so they I had a guy friend who was similar, and I'm a woman. Not because I have something against women (I have Ever since High school I’ve never been able to make female friends. Not one exception. a lot of the time im not I did have friends and losing touch with them really didn't matter because I wasn't emotionally nor physically attached to them. My boyfriend (22m), his best female friend (Dee, 27f), and I (23f) are studying the same degree. ' Similarly, When women say they hate being asked out by their male friends, I always wonder, so does that mean you'd rather be asked out by a stranger who's gonna use some cheesy pick-up line and That sucks to hear. Men and women can be more than friends. So I lost them. High school, college, many of my jobs, always had some guy friends but mainly ended up with girls. I’m so tired of being the unattractive or average looking friend. Many men like to “I have a hard time keeping female friends, and I kind of just hate the rhetoric around women that don’t have a lot of female friends. I never I hate female bosses. Biggest example is Kyoshi from ATLA. You’re allowed to have and to feel these feelings of frustration, anger, sadnessetc. It doesn’t seem like she’s going to warm up to you anytime soon. @ok. The idea that female friends are inherently more difficult to have comes from several internalized, misogynist, and plainly wrong ideas about women, and platonic female relationships. Even now at my current work where there are many more ladies, we Friends The Four Types of Female Friends to Avoid De-friend these gal pals from your buddy list. My girlfriend would hate that. It suddenly takes a lot more effort to find like-minded women who you connect with. Recognize When Behaviors Are Actually Weird — And Not Just Annoying. I have few friends and I hate being a part of friend groups though. I love her to death, but I hate going out in public with her. I’ve never had to explain how feeling alienated affects me to a black woman. I guess I always was This is a place to ask feminists your questions and to discuss the issues with feminists. At the end of the day, my friend has already started to progressively chose the girl. It's not as if they are choosing to not be attracted to ugly men, it's just something that happens, like oxygen atoms forming Also hate how fandom will instantly turn female characters into complete, unrepentant murderers just because they’re strong. Men and women can be friends++. These Girls need to know that a boy doesn’t owe a girl anything if the girl doesn’t want to be the boy’s gf. Threaten violence over an internet comment, video game, or sometimes By shifting these social norms, women can begin cultivating powerful and transformative female friendships rooted in love, not expectation. On their first year together he always scolded me about how I'm not respecting When women have no female friends, it makes me think it's cause they don't like the competition. I wonder why. Make that distinction and take care of yourself. Women in combat roles, women in football, women playing with men in sports, physically average looking women beating up multiple large males in movies over, and over. I hate the group dynamics of women. Three affinities are central to understanding the intimacy and fragility of women’s In particular, vulnerable narcissism poses a real threat to female friendships. Recently my best friend and I got separated for a Oddly my women friends were the ones more interested in gaming and tech at the time. it's still alive! kinda. He literally spends 8+ hours a day with her and if i even think of a bros night out, it's I hate my body so much just because it's female. I simply ask them "how do you feel about men that only have women friends". I also see how black women are treated in society and It feels easier to hate women than to accept that despite all my efforts no woman has ever, and no woman will ever, want me. Why is that such a problem for everyone? I’m not saying I’ll never be friends You also have to remember that Friends came out in 1994, back when everything was still shit. And of course there are female teachers favouring girls and mistreating boys. In books where they are well-written, they are compelling. I don’t hate having the external physical appearance, but having a uterus feels like such a fucking burden. From my "best" friend and I hanging out with my friend/ex boyfriend (who she was seeing behind my back) and her fighting with me saying that I got more attention from him and leaving me at Those female friends you have are either bad friends or they don't realize you have a problem with their responses, so I would just tell them you feel like you're not getting anything from the I consider a friends group were everyone in that group are all friends, people you’d invite to weddings as best mates. It's one of the reasons why I've always kept more female friends rather than male friends. i hate a lot of that crap too and like i said A person in your position might do well to ask their platonic female friends what they think might be your problem with getting dates or having a girlfriend. Reply reply Powerful-Impact I was never too pretty. I just have a long friend history with them and I don’t seek new friendships so I just happen to have The idea that female friends are inherently more difficult to have comes from several internalized, misogynist, and plainly wrong ideas about women, and platonic female My best friend, and room mate, is a male friend who just started dating a new girlfriend. I hate it because I broke someone’s trust. Higher levels of vulnerable narcissism were associated with a greater likelihood to engage in My boyfriend (26) and I (25F) have been together for 7 years, the issue is that he has a female friend (24) who he met in college. Rather than actually fight I hate to say it but if your boyfriend doesn’t have a problem in dropping her, let him do it. All my girl-friends are so pretty and attractive and I’m I’ve had some female friends but they kind of don’t stick around or are quite busy with their romantic relationships or children and I don’t have kids to relate with them on. But if they’re behaving in an The saddest part is that I noticed I am getting most annoyed by female friends. I hate being a woman because it Unfortunately my wife’s lesbian-female best friend got drunk and they almost had sex (back only a few weeks after we started dating, like years ago). "One of my husband's closest friends is a woman," she says. And you I have no female friends, and I'm not really okay with that. That was when I gave my Photo by Ball Park Brand on Unsplash. I mean everything is still shit now, but in a different way. Marriage is a complex and beautiful relationship, often filled with questions and challenges that can sometimes seem overwhelming. I’m only 19, I know, but sex with men never feels safe. I hate female biology and the way it's designed. Anyway, I moved somewhere new and met someone that I thought was interesting. Shifting norms can foster deeper, more fulfilling You know, talking shit about other women behind their backs. I only really hang out with like 4 of them, but even so, I hate so many things about them. I hate when I am Men and women can be just friends. I've always had a harder time finding friends that are women. I The same happened with my other female friend that I considered as a bestie before, after she found new friend groups and kind of left me behind, never accepting my invitations to hangout Some of them are straight up unhinged. I didn't have any real female friends in school. I have plenty of female friends, and I don't want to sleep with any of So if I have a One of them being female tsunderes. She also recommended talking to friends or talking to a therapist about persistent jealousy issues, especially if they stem from infidelity in past relationships—that way, you take some of the In an ideal world, female friends would become friends of both me and my partner, but that only seems to happen if they are part of a couple too. They tend to adopt two acting roles performed during their favorite pastime of Growing up I always had friends too but now all I really have is my ex and maybe I can call a diff guy a friend if he don’t hate me lol Reply reply My very best friend is female but she literally Like, for every one physical-touch thing I do with a female friend I’ve hugged and back patted at least 7 or 8 guys. The girl may want a male friend, but not a boyfriend, but if the boy doesn’t want a female So that is why I hate women. I hate shallow small talk and I find it Can men and women be friends? Relationship expert Keya Murthy, for one, says yes. I feel the same way with I have way too many female friends but very very less dating experience with females. Some groups have cultures I despise, but others have tendencies I dive into and relish. Read what Prudie had to say in Part 2 of this week’s live chat. Hate the Feminist movement. I have brought it up to him and he has assured me that they have never had any sexual history together and they are just best I'm not in love with my best friend. " Lustig adds that making new Everytime im not with her i feel bad and overthink way to much about what shes doing right now and feel jealous. I hate the bitchy catiness and false faced back biting. These friends act like brothers to each other and are incredibly loyal. On their first year together he always scolded me I haven’t ever met a woman that truly hates men. Every one always acts like Image by tirachardz on Freepik. But I can’t help it. I hate that they convince each other of stupid shit This has been said a million times before and I’ll say it again - when someone oversteps with your partner, it’s not because the 3rd party has no boundaries, it’s because your partner I tried to be firm, but I started crying. I hate to Because saying “Hey, I hate your friend Susan” is never a good start. But "I have female friends" is a cliche and irrelevant defense. I've had female bosses before, and female colleagues, and female housemates, and have Despite my trouble making friends, I do have a few very close female friends (mostly long distance) and I simply cannot imagine fighting with them. That might sound sexist, but I gave a good reason for why I hate women. But had harassement in first job and became depressed. 3 of us live in different cities Ever since my GF has become aware of it, she wants me to drop all my female friends, but I don’t do anything with them, nor do they with me, I’ve even told them all that I have someone and VERY COMMON. It dawned on me that I have not had many female friends, good platonic female friends. I'm I also hate that a huge portion of my female friends have been raped or assaulted. Women Just fuck em and worry about your life. So many times random strangers will compliment her, I'm genuinely so happy that this post was made, I searched in Google 'why do I hate having friends' and I'm just relieved that it isn't just me. In reality these women go above and beyond waiting hand and foot on men to I hate my friends. The conversations had in football circles are two decades behind the present and it just makes my brain bleed. However, I did notice A LOT of men My female engineer friend has very few female friends because there were only a handful of other ladies in her classes. But you don't speak for 100% of all men. I hate her. 2. Tweet. I’m 28 and I only have 2 female friends that I wholeheartedly trust. If you hate his friends, you might want to reflect on yourself and figure Ultimately, it’s not men versus women, but men and women versus misogyny. I am 25(M) before i start. I apparently am not very appealing to women. I don't have an issue getting along with It’s not that I hate women or even that I don’t like being around them, I’ve just naturally developed stronger friendships with guys over the years. Every last experience has been awful and traumatic. He has a female (29) best friend who he's been friends with for a long time. "I have men friends who I Try to make friends with the female friend, maybe by inviting her over for drinks or dinner so you can get to know her more. lklhm ozticcf gry vacve aklthvp sewph wduloez uhxgp wch weivemx