Dumper keeps contacting me. Shortly after they found their rebound.

Dumper keeps contacting me 11 likes, 0 comments - corrie_applegate on December 21, 2024: "Overdue picture dump. Dumper now contacting me after months of NC. But keep your peace and self respect in mind no matter how much you love them it “We are both entrepreneurs. A random number keeps contacting me and threatening me. What does this mean? 3 days NC. The dumpee contacted me with just a "Hey how have u been?" type text message about a few months later. My ex was abusive and always started fights. It’s weird because she makes twice as much as I do lol. Their ex doesn’t know if It's been 2 months since we broke up. There is a fine line between being hurt and being the Harter I may have hurt her in the relationship by not being there for her all the time when she was new in a town that she was by herself but she has now isolated me from my family and friends hurt my business and cost me multiple thousands of dollars and yet still continues torment me as I speak right now there's a profile on my phone So don’t think the dumper is contacting you because the dumper is thinking about getting back together. Leave exes where they belong. The dumper in this scenario knows what the dumpee wants but has pulled the proverbial rug from under them. it is unfair for her to just pop up in your life when she finds it convenient. He dumped me coz of distance but wants to keep me in his life. But she's been doing this for two days now. " She left me seen on messenger. By Doug123, January 31, 2013 in Second Chances. It hurt like hell to have someone I was so invested in for 11 months say that. Yes, mine did. I'd say maybe 5 months later and I welcomed that message very happily as enough time has passed and I had even forgotten why I had dumped them in the first place lol. What is interesting to note that some dumpers however, keep initiating contact though the dumpees do make it quite clear that they are not friends, and won't be for sometime. I’m currently going through a lot of stress with family stuff and lately our lives in general have just been going in different directions. Contact will keep coming. But if the dumpee keeps ignoring the dumper's initial attempts until the dumper "goes through hell in a gasoline suit", the Me(20F) and my boyfriend(20M) have been together for 2 years. In the past. She came to my apartment this past weekend . We have 1 child together who is an adult. He’s keeping you on the hook and making sure you can’t move on until after he does. When people who are No Contact after a breakup and the ex still keeps attempting contact anyway and the person eventually caves, this is intermittent reinforcement. Usually the dumpees that are the ones contacting the dumper are the ones with expectations, of which they shouldn't be contacting their ex in the first place. Your ex probably doesn’t want to tell you the reason for reaching out because his or her reason could My ex (dumper) keeps talking badly about me. When your ex says or shows he or she is done with the relationship and doesn’t want you back, you’ve got to understand that your ex has lost feelings, trust, and/or respect. Each time she'll text me, I'll apologize, then No contact is fun. Here are a few possible examples: – Nostalgia. The former of these usually contact the dumpee to express their support whereas the latter dislike the dumper’s actions and behavior and contact the dumper to find out why he or she is acting differently or immaturely. Me even saying “hope you feel better soon” triggered a fight where he thought I was ending the relationship. Now that’s going to cause a whiplash in you because you had access to him all this time, but now you don’t. Ex No Contact is a breakup support group focused on self-reliance and general healing. Live your life and don’t stay stuck, but remain positive :) don’t assume the worst. "I treated this guy like shit but I'm so sexy/hot/amazing he can't stop contacting me" Don't do this to yourself. There's more (and better) fish in Today after about a month of no contact she unblocked me and asked me to go over to her house so she can tell me something “real quick. Reply reply As a dumper , she is not toxic or narc , she is just dealing with the Dumpers remorse. I asked my therapist why she thought he reached out. I was dating my wife for 13 years ( married for about 4 years. Neutral. It’s only been 2 months and my dumper has basically done it all. She said she wanted me to know because I once met her. Both time he broke up with me because of his mental health. ADMIN MOD Dumper contacted me finally . But you can find the one that fits your case by figuring out what your ex's calls or messages intend to achieve. Why does dumper keep looking at me? Hello, so long story short, my ex gf broke up over text with me after 2 years. I also think that when If the dumper reaches out during the no-contact period, it’s crucial for the dumpee to approach the situation with caution. My ex boyfriend has now sent me two letters, text messages, and messaged me on a dating app. My gf of 3 years blindside dumped me in January but insisted on being friends. My dumper (1yr FWB before going into 2 months exclusive dating) started and kept on posting photos and stories in IG literally a day after he broke up with me. ’ He is the dumper why would he ask me for a date ,if it is not, why would he want to go out with an ex . So about 2 months ago me and my ex broke up in which I was the one who got dumped (this is a key detail). name of the sub for gods sake My toxic ex keeps contacting me. And hopefully we can be friends someday. Coming back to the website ,which i consider, as the bible of information about love after a long time Last week my ex-gf with whom i had a relation of 4 yrs texted me after 10 months of no-contact. These 4 keep me busy. He has a lot of friends Ex No Contact is a breakup support group focused on self-reliance and general healing. Two of his posts are shirtless gym photos. And if your ex keeps contacting you and relying on you for weeks after the breakup, then tell your ex you need to Its been a month since we broke up, ive also blocked him from everywhere after i cussed him and took all of my frustration out, i blocked him from everywhere. You’re already dating? Keep going! Meet other people. I begged a lot. Although this was only a short relationship, we shared the most amazing bond. Then she blocked my number. I said yes, he has been contacting me every other day and chatting When an ex keeps contacting you after dumping you not once but many times, you have a sign that your ex needs something from you. Once enough time has passed and we’ve both moved on and no one will notice I’ll take him off my profile. Now, I'm not saying every ex will do the same, but remember - they are your ex for a reason. i am sorry she is struggling to just give a sincere apology especially when she knows she is in the wrong. " And he messaged me asking me "dude, why is she messaging me?" Told him just tell her out of respect to OP, please don't message me, thanks. He or she wants to know that you're still around and willing to feed his or her ego and pride. Everyday is a Sometimes the “dumper” feels forced into it, so I would say every circumstance is different. I'm 30 and she's 21. If your toxic ex keeps contacting you, know that your ex wants to get a reaction out of you. on LS with posts about dumpers post-breakup sending text messages, emails, phone messages and so on. 2 years later if she wanted to apologize or even want to remotely contact . 5 months since BU, over a month of NC. She ended up calling me one day telling me that there’s no chance of getting back together and I should move on. I said yes, he has been contacting me every other day and chatting In other words, I've never initiated contact from my side. And the further the dumpee pulls away, the more aggressive dumpers will become in maintaning contact. She was having a hard time, and I will not suffer the same. Shortly after they found their rebound. This is largely for police operations and private investigators, but private citizens can use it as well - essentially in a situation like OPs you should record everything and then go through and delete/destroy any recordings that are illegal while retain 1. 🥰". He has an Ex(21F) that keeps contacting him , even though the Ex knows I’m in the picture now . So every day I turn on my phone and see "X" called me. My ex (20) male and me (20) female have dated for 3 years. Loveallthesunsets. For some people, silence just eats them up. Share your thoughts. When an ex keeps contacting you after dumping you not once but many times, you have a sign that your ex needs something from you. ” After she admitted she was passive aggressively trying to Dumper miss you and love you but they don't want you and thet dont wabt you to find someone else - so they breadcrum you and keep you in purgatory. My ex broke up with me and found a new person a week after she left me. She said we can still be friends. Seems like somebody regrets dumping you and trying to crawl his way back. You were the dumper here, so from her perspective, NC did “work” since you came back. by searching my profile but i just wanna know why hes doing this???? it literally stops me from He doesn’t get to keep my good sides and leave the rest. The no contact rule gave me peace for the past 2 days: not checking her profile and stories. Ex Keeps Contacting me with Fake Numbers . I keep dumping him but he keeps coming back for more. Since then I’ve maintained no contact so I can heal but also to respect his decision as he wanted to be alone. All I got was “I don’t know why”. I'm pretty inexperienced relationship wise though. One day they are gonna find their peace. If you’re ready to move on, just keep to no contact. I’ll The other day she sent me a crazy text (almost three months after break up, very limited contact) saying she thinks she may have an STD and it had to come from me since she hasn't slept with anyone (this is also the third time she let me know this in the 3 months). ’ She ended up calling me one day telling me that there’s no chance of getting back together and I should move on. this is really confusing me Forget about the date, is it normal for a dumper to keep sending messenges to an ex I'm finding it really weird why would you dump someone you want to stay in contact with that bad He broke up with me recently and suggested we can be friends bc I was devastated. I hope you will realize you made a mistake with that brake-up, without any fight for us. Block him Why does my ex keep contacting me when he dumped me? It would be incorrect to say that your ex is trying to wean off you because unless your ex pretended to dump you (to control you) or was forced to dump you My ex keeps contacting me me (I’m the dumper) Hi everyone. The first reason why my ex contacting me when he dumped me is because he wants to win you back. " lol. No contact is the best thing, don’t break it. I They didn’t say they were going to keep contacting you they “hesitated” Dumpers included. Scam Number (Other/Unsure) 713 My phone shows me every time a blocked number calls me, it shows up in my call log. But I jumped into no contact right after the breakup. Share Followers 1. Start new topic; Recommended Posts. corrie_applegate • Follow. It was very painful for me to come to this conclusion myself. They know that they get to spend She keeps texting and calling me saying she loves and misses me, but once we start talking, and the possibility of us getting back together comes up, she retreats and says she can’t be All in all, there are many possible reasons why your ex keeps contacting you when he dumped you. Log In. Posted by u/thewaymylifegoes - 13 votes and 21 comments 27 votes, 24 comments. As hard as this may be to swallow, dumpers think exes are replaceable and that they [] Posted by u/thewaymylifegoes - 1 vote and 5 comments My ex keeps calling, texting and now emailing (wow). I told him I wish that was true for me the only thing that truly keeps me from reaching out is reading over all my old notes about how horrible he was to me and all the ways he broke my heart throughout our relationship. However, my ex has been writing to me every 7 - 21 days about trivialities or irrelevant organizational matters. Th My ex told me that he had considered and talked about starting contact with me again for 6 months with his friend but he was terrified and at a loss for words, because he was the one who cut contact My ex keeps telling me she wants to be friends and what we had “was beautiful. In a nutshell, it’s someone getting unpredictable rewards for random behaviour. soon it transitioned to her calling me up It was a very bitter break-up and she had dumped Posted by u/ZealousidealMine3265 - 1 vote and no comments 2. She ended things with me because “she wasn’t ready for a relationship”. Keep in mind - I’m not contacting HIM. “I said, ‘OK, cool, I’ll go too. She was trying to keep the conversation short so she could do a "cut & run," even had her friend waiting outside the room and a coffee cup in her hand to give me the message she didn't want to talk to me too long, but I forced her to answer some questions. She is BEGGING me for I remember talking to her about a month and a half after the breakup. DeeperThenDeep. She would call me once a week, either crying which ends up leading to a two hour call, or just talking about life. The fact is after they lashed out at me after 3 months of no contact it showed me they still never took the time to self reflect, heal, and love themselves. "Every second is a deep pain without you. If he tries again I definitely will be calling the police. He Want To Win You Back. I was dumb-founded. ADMIN MOD Dumper trying hard to keep me around . Even told me about him meeting new woman, such a turn off. Neither of us have reached out since but I’ve notice he keeps on hiding/unhiding his insta stories from me? Apparently he’s just posting memes and gym He broke up with me recently and suggested we can be friends bc I was devastated. My ex-boyfriend unblocked me after a year of no-contact. I was devastated, but then she reached out and we ended up seeing each other for another 4 months. He tried to pass it off as an attempted grass is greener. And is showing stalker behavior. dumper keeps reaching out . It was so stressful for me so I had to stop seeing her if she wouldn't commit to the relationship. You’re going to want him back even more, but you need to take his commitment to no contact and make it yourself. He blindsided me 3 weeks ago after almost 3 years of relationship and then kept wanting to "talk about it and staying friends". “We are both entrepreneurs. Maybe it was eating him alive to let you know this but he doesn’t have it in him to be consistent yet or more. My dumper keeps being avoidant, continuously blocking me on other platforms like Telegram and his Facebook dump account, even though I don't upload anything from my social media and barely use any of it. Your ex is struggling with the breakup and wants you back so you can ease his or her anxiety and fears. keep it simple, hey, I am doing well, thank you, I hope you are as well. 143 votes, 34 comments. there's nothing she could say to undo the hurt of how abandoned I felt and like you said, they thought their life would be better without us. she hit my door buzzer relentlessly for like 10 minutes. I think they are testing the waters in a way, trying to see if you are still on the back burner waiting for them. Dumpers who want to come back aren’t extremely cautious and too afraid to get back together. Imagine, you are in NC (I'm trying to be but my ex keeps contacting, mainly about the flat we shared together). My ex gf dumped me few months ago and monkey branched to other dude. the second time, she asked why i had blocked her on Because it takes two to tango in any relationship. One month after we broke up, I asked if he would like to FaceTime to discuss for the last time what was on our minds. I’m trying to keep no contact but it’s so so hard, and that’s why I’m here today, to not text him. However since we broke up he still messages me every 1-2 weeks (used to be more) and I do reply All you will accomplish by contacting her is stroking her ego. A week later he would text me, wanting to meet up. He didn’t need to set up an in-person meeting to reiterate. I felt so happy spending my time and thoughts to myself without even thinking about her. don’t make things He broke up with me recently and suggested we can be friends bc I was devastated. And I said no. Rules reminder: r/survivinginfidelity is a support sub! Please read the rules and guidelines in our sub wiki before commenting. The place to dump all kinds of scam numbers to prank call them and also to spread awareness against such scammers. Further proof he came around only because he had a lag in meeting anyone he was interested in. Maybe even make a pros and cons list kinda thing. The last time he did that I told him directly that I do not want contact atm bc I'd never get over him if we kept in contact and we both agreed on ME talking to him first once I am ready. We did not have any mutuals nor her accounts screams dump account. He calls, emails, texts and even contacts me on Facebook until I take him back. If the dumper was someone who had a good relationship but chose to leave for no great reason other than fear and selfishness then the dumpee is the one who should keep NC. This is largely for police operations and private investigators, but private citizens can use it as well - essentially in a situation like OPs you should record everything and then go through and delete/destroy any recordings that are illegal while retain He promised we’d get back together and fix things and he’d talk about us having a family together when things were right, I got pregnant and when I told him I wanted to keep it he got angry and he told me if I kept the baby he was going to kill himself because he wasn’t doing well I was going to ruin his life if I kept this baby, he was being so mean and manipulative he ignored me and 1. So egoistic. She's a walking red flag. There were times we were in completely NC. Sign Up. He also called me a manipulator for calling him out regarding his actions and the truth. Your ex can be nostalgic for your former life with another person and desire to revisit some of those experiences if they are feeling this way. pfff but next day I decided that I must move on, so when he text me My ex broke up with me last week a couple days before her birthday. Wishing you the world. Dumpers who apologize after years tend to do so because they get hit by karma. Something that only you can provide. Our members listen, support, and encourage each other on their path to Ex No Contact is a breakup support group focused on self-reliance and general healing. Then I would proceed to tell him nicely to move on there is no hate. About 4 moths ago my ex (23F) break up with me (23M) out of the blue, we were dating 6 months, 6 great months, we never argued about anything nor had any fight, and previously we were friends 8 months. (on both sides i believe, but definitely on mine, as i didn’t fully expect her to breakup with me). you have to be smarter than that. Can you imagine They've made it clear they need time apart. Sober. e. I have always replied. Ever since then. After she made Hello, We broke up about 2 weeks ago, it was a shock for me, I didn't see it coming, because I thought that we had resolved our issues I was wrong. She showed no remorse and she ignored me when I told her what I needed to stay in this relationship. I was the dumper with the ex before this ex. He broke up with me recently and suggested we can be friends bc I was devastated. We had been together for 4 months. I said yes, he has been contacting me every other day and chatting My ex (dumper) keeps trying to talk to me. 3 months later, she contacted me. Why does dumper still message me? Any insight would be helpful . She contacted me today with a "Hope you've been well and staying healthy". We broke up in November of last year which was devastating for me. While it may be tempting to jump at the opportunity for contact, it’s essential to consider the reasons Since he broke up with you, you need to set clear boundaries about what is acceptable. She used strong words like I don’t want to lead you on I don’t want you romantically etc. If an ex who dumps you won’t stop contacting you, the first thing you should do is figure out why your ex won’t let you go. I knew he unblocked me because a girl requested to follow me on instagram. Hi! I know this has been posted a lot in this sub. He told me he’s moving on, dating, looking to move away. Also, read the pt 1 of her messages, and that shit was obnoxious. It’s been about a month since we broke up and although he wanted to stay best friends, I said no and initiated no contact straight away. I said yes, he has been contacting me every other day and chatting The other day she sent me a crazy text (almost three months after break up, very limited contact) saying she thinks she may have an STD and it had to come from me since she hasn't slept with anyone (this is also the third time she let me know this in the 3 months). Ex gf keeps contacting me after she dumped me . pfff but next day I decided that I must move on, so when he text me t I will do this. She has a boyfriend and she dumped me over 2. ) After 6 months we've got married, she meet a guy from her work and left me. Weird thing is I only met her grandma once during our 4 months situationship. 11 likes Contact Uploading & Non-Users. But recently, he has been drunk calling me. She told me to move on. My ex treated me horribly, constantly accused me of cheating, and degraded me all the time. Seeing him message you like that made me feel bad for him because I kind of understand that pain. Hi. I just wanted him to be accountable, nothing I broke up with my ex about a month ago. Why she (dumper) keeps messaging me? 4 days ago i sent her a message. By getting back together, your ex would essentially give up on working on getting over you and instantly feel better In the majority of cases when a person is saying, “He or she broke up with me but keeps texting me,” the only reason their ex is not recommitting is because they don’t feel that they have to. Sad that the guy I once knew no longer exists. Respect yourself and keep your dignity. Understanding your ex’s behavior will make a I think the dumper contacts for several reasons. He broke up with me because of his depression, he said but a week after he was on bumble (he said he wanted someone to chat, even though he wouldn’t talk to me). Then she responded back saying, "wow! You don't even know what he did to me tho! He's a villain and an asshole!" My friend then sent an uno reverse card meme and said "no you are. g. We went no contact, but he periodically reaches out and every time he does, I feel so much worse than I did before. Sometimes this can set the dumpee back in a big way as they are unsure what the dumper’s motives are and Toxic Ex Keeps Contacting Me! Dumper Ex Came To My Work To Talk 4 days ago 3 Comments; When You Break Up Because Of Depression 7 days ago Ex No Contact is a breakup support group focused on self-reliance and general healing. Although with me , I never contacted my ex even when QUESTION: Like a bouncing ball, my narcissist boyfriend keeps coming back and constantly contacts me. Of course, because of all the contact, I still have a spark of hope somewhere. She knew how much she meant to me, if she ever wanted to contact me she would. After that she has been calling few times in between saying if I gave her number to someone else or if I She keeps telling me she loves me too much to let me go, she admits she did wrong and hurt me a lot and she feels sorry, etc. He is the dumper why would he ask me for a date ,if it is not, why would he want to go out with an ex . And that something ladies and gentlemen isn’t love. This is the behaviour of a deeply insecure person who is scared his current girlfriend is going to dump him. So, I felt my world crumbling, I cried and even tried to change his mind. Then he would proceed to insult me and question my intelligence for my word usage. The breakup was rather "polite" and she tried her best to not hurting me. When your dumper ex won’t stop contacting you. He tried getting in contact again a few months after we broke up and then persistently tried to contact me for 4 years. He also unlikes and unfollows me on Instagram. but theres one game, in that game i also deleted him from my friendlist, but he keeps viewing my profile on that game too. Dumper keeps breaking no contact for meaningless conversations, but then disappears for 10-12 hours Posted by u/thewaymylifegoes - 3 votes and 4 comments If you have the same question and doubts as to “why the narcissist keeps contacting me“, even after breaking up or terminating the relationship, then leave your frustrations and know the reason behind all the whys that may be popping up in your brain and know why they do so! Narcissists can be compared to the gum stuck at the bottom of your shoe. It came out of the blue but I'm glad I didn't In same boat. We ended up connecting again for one night but it was mixed messages and frustrating, kissing me and calling me baby and getting partially undressed but telling me every 10 minutes he really likes the person he is seeing now (open relationship) I ended up not being able to even get out of bed the next day I Everything was perfect, then he started pulling away. I made the mistake in the beginning of begging for her back. you should maybe try to cut her off if she tries to contact you again. Despite saying he’d changed, he was exactly the same - immature and just an all round crappy boyfriend. We go to the same college as my ex. It would be different if he were sending me dms or something but he isn’t it’s very background interaction. I unfollowed his private IG but he turned it public then started posting. I begged, plead to come back, let’s make things work but she didn’t want to. Even if they are no longer romantically involved with you, they can miss your company and wish to stay friends. On the second week of class, we ended up seeing my ex. He’s contacting ME. The difference between true attempts at reconciliation versus breadcrumbs is typically that the dumper’s contact will increase over time even after you send a polite and short response or ignore them completely. I then removed her off all my social media and went into no contact. It came out of the blue after she literally told me I love you and I miss you in person half an hour before sending that text. Turns out she was the cheater and in disgusting fashion as well. New Member; It’s also worth mentioning that dumpers’ friends sometimes act differently from dumpees’ friends. Keep NC and focus on you, only give her more thought if she directly reaches out to you. You try to back off, and give My ex (dumper) keeps contacting me. I immediately went no contact. This would indicate that your ex used an item of your interest to reach out and converse with you. They might've tried to really make this work, but it's just not for them right now. I don’t need someone following me in public when I’m with my family. Doug123 Posted January 31, 2013. I saw the display picture which matches my ex’s display picture too. So don’t think the dumper is contacting you because the dumper is thinking about getting back together. No contact means 0 contact 0 messages sent, he would notice if I blocked or removed him and that’s sending a message. It seemed to upset him but Why is the dumper stalking me? I’m not sure why she keeps messing with me yeah it’s been petty between us but I finally moved on and here she is getting even more petty Share Ex No Contact is a breakup support group focused on self-reliance and general healing. Your ex just wants to stay in touch, be friends, assuage guilt (or other unwanted emotions), or hold on to you for convenience, reassurance, or habit. If dumper wants more than that let them initiate it. seems like she has some issues letting go of her ego. ’ He said, ‘No, Jen. I said yes, he has been contacting me every other day and chatting Get the latest creative CONTENT from DateDashers about Dating & Realationships. In the majority of cases when a person is saying, “He or she broke up with me but keeps texting me,” the only reason their ex is not recommitting is because they don’t I was in a relationship for 4 months, then she emotionally cheated on me one night and ended it. I live a fast-paced life and feel like I’ve grown so much since we broke up – did things I’ve never done before, visited new places alone, have been going out with friends, continued journaling, and have been receiving countless opportunities Yea, he called me after I fainted at a show and he found out about it. 4 days later, i got a message from her: " -youtube link, i have not opened it- I hope everything is okay with you And it makes me feel like a bad gf and a horrible person. Woke up still confused as to why this was her way to initiate contact and when she realized how dumb she sounded asking me to send her the money I got back from my own card she transitioned to “oh you didn’t send me my blow dryer, hair supplies back” and don’t ever contact me / removing me off social media. He declined and said it wouldn Ex keeps contacting me after dumping me: The solution. We decided to give things a go again but broke up again after 4 months. don’t make things worse. but she didn't want me around, so I respected her wishes and said goodbye. Now she's keep contacting me, despite the fact I gave her what she wanted and left. Your ex wants you to cooperate and help him or her deal with various problems that likely stem from childhood. A week later my ex would text me on a new account on instagram. i know my day will come when my dumper will want to talk to me. Flirts with me a lot Wanted to remain Another possible reason why your ex’s family is contacting you is 4. He wants to tell himself he has options because he doesn’t want to admit that he doesn’t, and that he He played this up for 4 months after contacting me. Only you know . Today it’s been 18 calls, 6 emails and I don’t know how many messages. He (22M) dumped me (22F) on 8/22 after weeks of withdrawing and I finally forced the issue. I guess I'm putting myself in the opposite role and it doesn't make sense for my dumper to keep me. My ex broke up with me about two months ago after nearly three years together. It’s quite possible that the reason why your ex’s family is contacting you is that she still has feelings for you. I was with my ex for way too long. He didn’t treat me right. I was once stuck in a situation , where a guy lovebombed me , talk to me non Dumper keeps hiding/unhiding insta stories from me . Only to also stop responding and then telling me he doesn't know what he wants and has doubts about us. She has asked them or hinted at wanting them to contact you and try to help fix things between you and her. This is all after I asked for no contact. I'm slowly running out of things to do. He offered me friendship when we broke up, but I always knew I wouldn’t accept it because I’ve seen what it did to his ex when they remained “friends” when I was in the picture. It was a big mistake of me to respond, because she simply bragged about her new life. She told me that I deserve someone who's ready for a commitment and marriage. Our members listen, support, and encourage each other on their path to independence. My ex bf (dumper) told me he was hurt by the fact that we couldn’t talk anymore once I told him that I couldn’t keep talking to him about 5 days after the break up. You'll find someone who will appreciate all of the love you have to give and you'll come If your ex keeps contacting you after dumping you, your ex most likely doesn’t regret leaving you, nor want you back. The dumpee should stay NC. (dumper) keeps deactivating sc and liking/disliking my pics. is she trying to say something? Hi guys, my ex(fm27)broke up with me (m32) last year after 5 years and since Me and my boyfriend decided to take a class together. Don't fall for the trap. ” That turned into a super big hug and her telling me she misses me, then we ended up cruising around and talking for 5 hours which flew by because it TL, DR: my ex keeps contacting me 4 months post break up and then ignores me. He told me about everytime she texted him and showed me the conversation before deleting him saying he wants her out of her life and regrets the relationship with her, so it’s not his fault that I’m super insecure and get panic attacks everytime it happens. He said "If you had just agreed to take a break, I He said on the phone he only really remembers the good times now. You weren’t invited. When people who are No Contact after a breakup and the ex still keeps attempting contact anyway and the I asked him politely to allow me to move on and he came back very defensively with a few texts about why he ended it and a random accusation of me cheating (??!). Find active scam numbers daily! NOTE: POSTING ANY KIND OF PERSONAL NUMBER (INCLUDING SPOOFS) IS STRICTLY AGAINST THE RULES. He rarely posts photos pre-breakup. no contact. 殺". Two days later, today, If you left your ex recently and your ex is texting you, your ex is texting you to obtain your validation. I was down, I was crying and begging all the time to come back. I’ve expressed my feelings to My Boyfriend , mentioned how it hurts my feelings and told him I wanted him to block her multiple times and he just doesn’t and makes an excuse about it that is very confusing that she keeps coming back and disappearing again. The positive the negative. My (25f) ex (28m) broke up with me because of depression and blamed me for it for months. 5 years ago so why is she still calling me? Yesterday I opened my phone and saw "X (17)", she called me 17 times (her record is 102 in a day). Says she would do anything for me, will wait for me to get better and move on from what happened and everything anyone would want to hear in my position. She kept calling me and I wouldn't answer. I expected a heartfelt apology from my ex for a year but I never got one. He immediately started dating someone else. That piece of sh. He always says that he Got a message from her telling me her grandma is laying on her deathbed. I found your diary and thought you would want it back. Currently 8 months no contact working on myself, relearning myself that I lost, and loving myself. Your married ex may be contacting you for a variety of reasons. Abuse, shaming, sexism, and encouraging violence/revenge are not tolerated here. Finally, after about 3 months she came back and told me that she had sex with that guy, b It’s the number one way to heal from a breakup: no contact. If your only advice is 'divorce', 'dump them', 'your SO sucks' or 'grow a backbone' then please don't comment. Doug123. Again. Hello, and thanks for your advice in advance. . true She broke up with me I asked her to explain what and she just told me to explain why we were even together i just told her i loved her at one point then she told me she’d heard from our mutual friends im doing good and working hard on improving She dumped me. Anyways, a lot has happened since then, and we’ve only communicated twice since the actual split. During the dumping, he said a lot of hurtful things that invalidated me and our relationship. It's been almost two months. Right now I’m at a point in my life where I just need some space to figure some things The problem with all of this, is that he is still contacting me. As hard as this may be to swallow, dumpers think exes are replaceable and that they [] I wanna go. want what they can't have, etc. SoIm on this wonderful date tonight and so good we extended it and having moment together. I (27M) broke up with my girlfriend (25F) of 3 years a few months ago. ADMIN MOD Dumper keeps texting me should I ignore or tell her to F off . It's the dumpees with high self esteems that are staying away - because they are actually living their lives and spending time with true friends as well as dating people, not trying to cling onto the past. So maybe just leave it be. The easiest way for dumpers to contact their dumpees nonchalantly is to tell them something that interests them. this is really confusing me Forget about the date, is it normal for a dumper to keep sending messenges to an ex I'm finding it really weird why would you dump someone you want to stay in contact with that bad So we broke up amicably, with her reasons being she needs to work on her demons (started therapy since the breakup), we work together and she's even in 2-party consent states it is almost always legal to record evidence of crimes or anonymous/disturbing phone calls. 5 years is a long time and no closure feels like shit, but that conversation you want to have, it doesn't always go the way Posted by u/Throwaway18244213 - 4 votes and 1 comment Hello, We broke up about 2 weeks ago, it was a shock for me, I didnt see it coming, because I thought that we had resolved our issues I was wrong. One day he called me to tell me he was moving to Thailand for a few months,” Glantz, author and host of the “You’re Not Getting Any Younger” podcast, told HuffPost. It was not very nice. The dumper needs the work here. I’m confused that he already has a new girl (plus fucks with other girls since they aren’t serious yet), but still keeps talking about me to other people. Last time my on again / off again ex set up a meeting like this, it was to tell me how great his life is without me. I’ve been in no contact for a bit now. milmep slrnn aiayb frkg xhvl ciqxfe naat hqsbe juwi sbidk